Pat R Admin
Number of posts : 481 Age : 73 Registration date : 2009-03-07
| Subject: The Tongue Can Be Your Worst Enemy or Your Best Friend (anon) Sat Apr 25, 2009 7:14 am | |
| (Our Rowena emailed me the following piece written by an anonymous author. I think these words are excellent advice for us all and they fit in well with the Law of Attraction.) THE TONGUE CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY OR YOUR BEST FRIEND!Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about.If you keep saying you can’t stand your job, you might lose your job.If you keep saying you can’t stand your body, your body can become sick.If you keep saying you can’t stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop operating.If you keep saying you’re broke, guess what? You’ll always be broke.If you keep saying you can’t trust a man or trust a woman, you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you.If you keep saying you can’t find a job, you will remain unemployed.If you keep saying you can’t find someone to love you or believe in you, then your very thought will attract more experiences to confirm your beliefs. If you keep talking about a divorce or break up in a relationship, then you might end up with it. Turn your thoughts and conversations around to be more positive and power packed with faith, hope, love and action. Don’t be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and deserve. Watch your Thoughts, they become words. Watch your Words, they become actions.Watch your Actions, they become habits. Watch your Habits, they become character. The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settle for. Watch how your circumstances and situations begin to change when you change the way you speak. ‘Life is like melted butter….. Once things cool down, it can be reshaped!’ | |
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lingem Member
Number of posts : 24 Age : 50 Location : kent Registration date : 2009-05-13
| Subject: Re: The Tongue Can Be Your Worst Enemy or Your Best Friend (anon) Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:51 am | |
| This is so true! Since reading 'The Secret' I'm a lot more careful with my thoughts and feel a lot more positive for it! If I'm in a negative frame of mind I try and turn it round. Always be grateful for what you have. However big or small or insignificant it may seem to others! Linda x | |
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Ginger Newbie
Number of posts : 11 Age : 56 Location : Cumbria Registration date : 2009-07-22
| Subject: Thoughts are everything... yup, I agree Wed Jul 29, 2009 4:02 am | |
| How very true - I've been trying really hard on this front. I seem to be massively prone to what I call 'catastrophisation', ie, I worry about something and then my mind's off creating feature-length films on the worst possible consequences of the worry! And, then somehow, bits of it seem to come true... Funnily enough, the psychologists working on the Happiness project (Martin Seligman???) also tell you that 'catastrophisation' is a really good way to make yourself unhappy, so supposedly cold-blooded scientifically measureable psychology is agreeing completely with Rhonda Byrne and Lynn Grabhorn and all the rest! I especially need to block of the catastrophisation (fed up of spelling that now!) at night... there's something about the dead of night which brings it on. I'm fairly good at slamming up a mental brick wall, but it's taken a long time to learn. I think what has made me finally learn is the acceptance that this really is in my best interest. I've realised you can sort of get addicted to catastrophisation, even when it's orrible. I suppose it's a passionate thought (even if a bad one) and it makes us feel alive (although rubbish). Better to be blandly cheerful - which is sometimes how I feel! - than mired in my own fears and projections. I do feel better as a result, although I have to write lots of practical, less than cheerful things down in my diary (like bill paying days!) or else I forget about them! I have been sliding slightly in the last few days - job stuff - and POW! my kettle bust this morning (it's only a month or so old, too), so I think I shall find an hour this afternoon to talk myself back cheerful with my journal. Hope I'm not being too boring... and thoughts, anyone? | |
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